We had an arguement, how do we fix it?

If your relationship is anything like mine, you have your ups and downs.  Right now (while I'm writing this), me and my boyfriend are talking through our problems.  We can multitask while we talk through our problems because we are always trying to work on our relationship while still working on the house or while doing our jobs.  If you keep up with trying to work on your relationship no matter what you are doing, or how mad you are at your spouse, you will most likely have a successful relationship.

(My boyfriend made a joke about me being lazy)

I called him mean and now I'm a little upset with him because we told each other we would calm down on calling each other names.  We do have a good enough relationship to where we can call each other names and laugh about it afterwards.  He knows when to stop calling me names and I know when to stop.

Get to know your partner WELL.

Hello and happy thanksgiving.  :). I hope your at home with your families and with your friends.  When your families go home and your in your bed don't forget to tell your significant other that you love them and are so very thankful to be with them.

Do you enjoy his company?

After spending so much time with your boyfriend do you still enjoy having him around? 

When you come home and see him there sitting on the couch do you still smile?  If you don't then think about the last time he made you smile, how long ago was it?  When did he last make you laugh?  Are you still talking about him in a loving tone to your friends?  Love can be hard to hold onto sometimes.  When you start to roll your eyes at each other, when you are snapping at each other over silly things then you probably take a step back and look at what's in front of you.  You shouldn't let yourself forget why you fell for him in the first place.  Do you really want to lose him? 

Why not take a few ideas, like writing little love messages to him in the morning.  Leave it somewhere he will see it before work.  Make him a special dinner for two.  Of course make sure its on a day you two have time.  Do something straight from the books and light up candles around the tub, dim the lights and leave a trail of flower petals to you.  Make it a special night and fall in love again.  You might ignite that spark into a flame and make your relationship  worth while again.